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tadz
16-04-2005, 12:18 PM
Hijaab is an Attitude, not a Fashion
(and it's for Men Too!!)
By Fawzia Malik

Wearing the Hijaab isn't just a matter of simply putting a piece of cloth on your head, it is an
attitude, a way of thinking and behaving, and accepting yourself for who and what you are.
Basically it constitutes an Islamic way of life, it is a statement which indeed should portray a certain attitude.

A woman may indeed wear a long skirt and a scarf, but if she flirts constantly, then she can't be really described as wearing the Hijaab (Indeed clothes should be long, loose and not see through, after which any style of clothing is applicable). The whole idea involves conducting
oneself with dignity at all times (that means running for the bus and boisterous behaviour in public is not a good idea!!). As previously mentioned, the Hijaab depicts a statement, and that is something one should be continually aware of. It identifies you as a Muslim, and ultimately people will judge Islam by you, and that is a heavy responsibility!! Yet sisters, we must also be thankful that by wearing the Hijaab, we go a long way in fulfilling our duties of Dawah. Curiosity prompts people to question us, giving us the opportunity to show the non- muslims the beauty of our religion. O.k., so we may get the stares at times (to which one rapidly becomes immune), but it is amazing how many are sincerely interested, oh and not to forget the redoubtable old British ladies on the Tube ("Oh I do like your headdress, my dear!!!").

Hijaab isn't meant to restrict you from doing the kind of things you want to do, it is a blessing because it makes us check our behaviour continuously, preventing us from doing the things that muslims shouldn't be doing anyway. Anything (with the blessings of the Almighty, is possible) - studying, working etc..-provided it is within the bounds of Islam.

lindan236055
28-05-2005, 04:23 PM
asalamu-o-alakium,
i agree 100% with you.i have had this thought in my mind ever sence i became musslimah.it keeps your mind constantly on your deen.and the rememberance of ALLAH(ZIKR).where ever i am i keep constant watch on my behavior because i know others are watching and i don't ever wnat to confuse a person(s) because of mis conduct on my part.and if i do do or say something wrong or unpleasant i ask for forgivness in their presance and let them know it is wrong of what i said.
at first i was so affraid to wear the hyjab but know i am very immune to it.and i know when others stare it is putting the thought of my deen and ALLAH in their minds rather for a split second or longer.i take pleasure in dressing pleasingly to ALLAH .

salam,linda

Aberra
09-11-2005, 08:43 PM
You are absoulutley right...i wear the burka but i used to HATE IT but then one day i was like to heck what what these people think im trying to please Allah not these khuffars.

um almuthanna
09-11-2005, 10:41 PM
Islam is life ,
jazaki Allah khair sister .

eyad alhumaidan
10-11-2005, 12:20 AM
Alsalam alikum dear sisters,
I would just like to say that it is an honour to all of us muslims to obey god,because everything god and orders us to say or do is benefecial to us in our life and in the afterlife or at least it is not harmful.Consider for example how the Hijab will prevent the human wolves from harming the muslim woman because they can't see her in the first place.I have a beard and every time it gets long i have this strange feeling,perhaps this is the blessing of god becausa the prophet ordered us to leave our beards.
May god keeps us on the straight path
Your brother in islam
Eyad AL-Humaidan